relationships

Why is it the person we were head over heels for just a few months ago now seems a bit ... boring? Clinician and researcher Stan Tatkin says our brains are wired to kick into auto-pilot after a while, but it doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship.

It's a Weiner and a lobster with a splash. We're not talking culinary delights here but if you're thinking of taking in a movie after dinner this weekend then here are this week's picks from Up To Date's indie, foreign and documentary film critic Steve Walker.

Weiner, R

  • Painfully intimate documentary about how Anthony Weiner's sexual self-destructiveness sabotaged his 2013 NYC mayoral campaign. 

The Lobster, R

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Mar 10, 2016

Is there a correlation between the way we relate to objects and the way we treat our relationships with people? A KU researcher has found that when we treat everything else as expendable … we may unwittingly treat human beings that way, too.

Guests:

Money is the leading cause of stress in many relationships. On this edition of Up To Date, a panel of Certified Financial Planners discusses solutions to common monetary problems couples face. 

Guests:

  • Alex Petrovic is founder of Petrovic Financial Services.
  • David Jackson is with the Financial Planning Association.
  • Barbara McMahon is the president of Innovest Financial Partners in Brookside.

Pornography is readily available and free and young people are taking advantage of that. We talk about how porn can affect their relationship expectations and where it can turn into an addiction.

Guests:

  • Dr. Wes Crenshaw is a psychologist board certified in couples and family psychology.
  • Michael Kraske is the online editor of The Harbinger at Shawnee Mission East High School, where he has written about this subject.
  • Morgan (real name withheld) is a student at UMKC.

The success of 60's era "The Andy Griffith Show" largely hinged upon the on-screen relationship between Andy Griffith and Don Knotts, who played Sheriff Andy Taylor and his trusty deputy, Barney Fife. Steve Kraske learns about the real-life friendship between the stars of his favorite show.

Guest:

  • Daniel De Visè is the author of Andy & Don: The Making of a Friendship and a Classic American TV Show.
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Finding love is a difficult task at any age, but once you reach the later stages of life, the challenge can be even greater.

Because meeting new people can be especially hard, some organizations across the country are creating opportunities to make it a little bit easier by hosting senior speed-dating events.

Last month, the Shepherd’s Center Central in Kansas City organized their own speed dating event targeted to people over the age of 55, the first event of its kind in the metro.

Dating is hard, even for those just beginning that scene. But once you pass the age of 70, the challenges can be even greater. We talk with two seniors who stepped outside their comfort zones to try a new way  of meeting people and a film director who holds the issue close to heart. 

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Millions of teens and adults have been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder.

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A boss can make or break a job. Lack of manager training, promoting for the wrong reasons, and even personal character flaws have resulted in multiple "bad bosses" making the work environment for many stressful, or even toxic. According to an American Psychological Association survey, three-fourths of Americans suffer from workplace stress. And that stress can take a toll.

When a couple is together for the long haul, sometimes a set of guidelines helps keep the harmony in the matrimony.

Here's some news: Relationships are complicated. So complicated, in fact, that's it's never a bad time to review some good rules for how to manage these very complex beasts.